Friday, February 15, 2008

CAS Transfer Visit #2

My lawyer called me around noon today. She said that she got a letter from my ex's lawyer and that since the CAS investigation is over, he wants the children this weekend. Obviously he is on crack. Anyhow, she replied to them, saying that since she received this last minute on a Friday, and since I have plans for the weekend, this is not acceptable. We will have to discuss the matter further next week.

I also had a transfer visit from the CAS at 3pm today. This time, it was for the new worker to meet the children. It went fine. She spent time getting to know them better. She has agreed to let us use her supervision facility. Here is the kicker- but she is NOT able to enforce supervised access. I just don't get it. Here is an organization that is renound for apprehending children, yet they cannot seem to protect mine. What the hell is up with that?

Anyhow, basically, I need to speak to my lawyer next week. Since the CAS is not enforcing supervision (or apparently not able to enforce it), and since their case is now closed, I am in breach of a court order by not sending the children to my ex. I need to find out from my lawyer if either A) my ex can willingly consent to supervised access at a centre for a certain period of time or B) if we need to go back to court and get a supervision order from a judge. What a waste of time and money. I SO picked the worst man to marry. What a screwed up existence I am leading. Make one mistake and pay a lifetime for it. Sigh.

Thank God for the long weekend ahead.

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